俯瞰人生

有没有想过
在你的生命走向死亡的时候，
那时候的你会是怎样的？
是快乐的，还是遗憾，还是愤怒，还是怨恨？
有没有想过
未来的你过的是什么人生？
大富大贵， 奢华糜烂，简单乐活 还是碌碌无为？

在这一顷刻
让你为自己来个自我评估
摈弃那些凡夫俗节，或者世人的眼光与审判
评估你现在对你所做的一切事物与态度
以后你的人生是否会像你所想像般美好与幸福？
你如今的选择是否会让你以后的人生无悔？

如果答案是随着你的心走的“是”
那么恭喜你
你会是快乐的
不管你现在快乐与否，你和你的心会一直联系在一起
因为你在用心去体验人生

我们的人生
从来不需要别人的掌声
我们需要
从来都是自己给自己的掌声

真正的人生
是心走出来的人生
是与世界联系的人生
你不会去怨恨世界不给予你的一切
反而感恩那在你身上撒下的苦和泪
因为知足所以乐活
在这一点上
不管你的人生是物质还是心理层面
你是乐活的人

但
不要用自己的眼光
去审判别人的生活快不快乐
我们永远没有这份资格
我们可以选择帮助
但不是自我定夺

生活的快乐点
在于你是否知足
你拥有的什么
你奋斗为的是什么
等价交换
从来不是值得考量的事

Homesickness

It had been three months staying out station ,which is the longest time ever I'm not at home.
Apparently, homesickness starts to invade and commandeer my thinkings.
I am so deeply experienced the importance and happiness with family.
I am reminiscing moments with my family members, chit chatting with mum, frolicking with my brother, debating about certain issue with my dad etc.
Sometimes I am so depressed and weary to see no one at home.
The feeling of loneliness was so strong and fervent until it almost besieged my mind.
I feel insecure without my parents, I feel I have lost my childish character without my brother.
Life is incessant work and studies here
What's my authentic self ?
You would only feel belonged when you are back to your hometown
With familiar breeze wafting across your face,embracing you with warmth and console you with its harmonious music.
That's why we are at home.
Your pensive thinkings will be ceased in torrential.
Your desolate heart will be full-filled.
Your exhausted mind will be replenished.

What will today be after one year ?

We promised to ourselves,
Give me one year, I would change my life, I would earn more money, i would be a millionaire ,etc...
One year seemed like a long time and far journey from now
Anyway, it seemed, but It might not.
One year could be another kind of motivation or else a bullshit of excuses
Sometimes,we take advantages on it
We tend to delay and procrastinate our time
We tend to relax ourself and escort from the problem
We tend not to start planning our future and allow this kind of laziness interfere ,deprive, maneuver and besieged our life inadvertently.
We are losing our chances to ascend to the pinnacle of our life incessantly .
As time goes by,
When the one year had reached
You may be blanched with the result
Regretful with what you have done
Gaunted and angered with your blunder
However, it's just too late